Mike had a conference in Naples last month and suggested I tag along for some sun in the middle of our winter. I enthusiastically agreed and packed my bags for the playground of wealthy WASPs. I had been to Naples before and was looking forward to exploring a few of my favorite places again.

Naples is a fabulous place in the wintertime, but the traffic and dense population can be daunting if you don’t have a plan. This Traveling Sister recommends you take time to dive into each of these divalicious experiences, and then find some of your own!

In Naples, it’s worth it to stay on or within walking distance to the beach. Best bets include the Ritz-Carlton, La Playa Beach Club, or the Hilton. The Hilton is a bit far from the beach, but they have a shuttle and will send you with a cooler and umbrella.

On your first morning, head straight to the beach for a walk. You’ll have trouble deciding where to look – the ocean to one side, the multi-million dollar homes on the other, and some of the best shells in the world at your feet. You can truly walk this beach every morning of your stay and see new things. Keep a look out for the gorgeous pelicans who like to feed by the pier. Approach quietly, and they’ll let you take their picture.

Do your hair and put on your Trina Turk shift dress and Tory Burch flats: we’re headed to the shops at Waterside, just off Tamiami Trail. Anchored by Saks Fifth Avenue and a “coming soon” Nordstrom, this outdoor shopping mecca has most of what any shopping diva could want. Hermes, Gucci, and Cartier are all within site of each other and the people-watching is almost as much fun as the merchandise. But don’t pass up the Banana Republic and other “mall brands.” I’ve found some great clothes that my local stores don’t carry. Grab lunch at one of the adorable restaurants and make a day of this excursion.

Spent too much at Waterside? Hakuna matata, my friend. Head on down the Tamiami Trail (are you seeing a pattern here) to Best of Everything, a set of stores featuring costume jewelry, $10 sunglasses, and discount home decor that can’t be missed. Since the Traveling Sisters love a good bargain, we’ve been known to mix that hot $5 bracelet with a Pucci scarf. Believe us: no one will guess you’re wearing costume jewelry. In fact, while browsing one of Naples’ most exclusive boutiques, a sales associate was gushing over my “fabulous” earrings. Don’t tell, but they were a $4.95 B.O.E. buy.

Figure out when sunset is and head over to the Ritz-Carlton about 40 minutes beforehand. Get a spot with a great view at their beachfront bar and sip a cool drink while awaiting one of the more spectacular sunsets you’ll ever see. As with several other Ritzes around the world, there is also a drumroll leading up to the actual setting. It’s a perfect way to relax after an active day.

Golf 18 holes at the Naples Beach Hotel & Golf Club. It’s Naples oldest course and is open to the public. Enjoy the tradition of playing at this storied course.

Browse the shops on 5th Avenue and have lunch or dinner at a sidewalk table. But the real show is over on 3rd Street with its hot boutiques and high-fashion names. Eat at Campiello’s but make reservations.

Most of all, enjoy the general fabulousness of Naples – the fierce cars, even fiercer houses, and that sensational Florida sunshine.